ok. but i just reblogged the post, as you can see it wasn’t mine originally. i understand it to a certain extent, somethings i like about it, somethings i don’t. if you want to argue about all this, take it up to the original poster. i reblog what iwant. it might help people it might not, it might hurt people it might not. i don’t know who looks at my blog. 

if they can’t take the advice, then there is nothing i can do.

don’t like what i post, then don’t comment on it, or ask about it. you think i’m being judgmental on purpose if that is how you see me then i’m sorry. 

my only intent is to help others, but if you have a problem with it, either you can tell me and i can try to fix it so it doesn’t happen again, or you can just leave. 

if you have a problem with me, then advise a better solution so i don’t help cause anymore problems. 

i take advice as well as the next person, i give advice as well as the next person. just your perspective.

never said it would work for everybody. i’m not judging people, i know people in worst situations, sometimes the advice works sometimes it doensn’t. if it doesnt  work for you then i can’t do nothing about it. i can only give what i think can help others. its not about you, i’m just trying to help OTHER people, not a specific person. its just how you look at things.

i’m not going to bash someone just because they don’t take my advice, its called an advice for a reason, its something that you can think about, you can choose to act on it, but you don’t have to do it.

it takes time. if you’re in a rush then i can’t help you there. patience works, i only save money if im able to. i never said that i save every single penny i see, and not spend. i probably spent more then i saved, but thats me. i picked up coins from the ground if i see it outside, if i buy something i take the change and put in a cup, its just how you save and how patience you are. it probably took me weeks or maybe even like months to get enough money to buy a binder, but i did it, and im proud of that accomplishment. I only said that so maybe people can find other ways to get money or save money instead of just using the option of beggin and etc. 

i’m not putting anyone down, im giving suggestions and advice, if you don’t like it then don’t read it.

i know there are situations where it is not likely supported to save up. just have to think outside the box, to find a way. then if asking is the option you think is best then by all means do it. 

my situation and your situation or anyone else’s is not the same. 

just saying you should use any resource you have, i stopped doing certain things when ifound out that i have better resources to use. 

when i have the money i’ll be gladly to help others get a binder. its the same how people use Ace bandages instead of a binder, they use their resources to help them feel a little bit more comfertable. maybe think of a budget plan, if you can save 1$ or 2$ a week, its a start to something.

Thanks. Well ee sorted it out and now back to our old friendship. Still hurts but its life i guess. Thank you much for the encouragement

thank you :]